I think spools and welded diffs are much harder on axle shafts, not to mention the tires themselves.
ANY difference in tire diameter, even going straight down the road, the difference in distance traveled by the 2 tires has to go SOMEWHERE. It either has to scrub a tire or twist an axle shaft. If the tires have good traction, usually the shaft will twist until it overcomes traction, then the tire slips and the axle unloads, and the cycle starts again. Enough cycles, and the axle shaft fatigues and snaps. Cornering accelerates the process.
On a 36" tire, a 1/4" difference in diameter translates into nearly 1/2" difference in distance traveled PER REVOLUTION.
So even though a Detroit does cause some shock load, it's not a continuous process. I'll take my Detroit over a welded diff any day.
Bob
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