The prices you have on the RE stuff is too high, you can get them less expensively. RE's rules don't allow me to post prices so if you want to know just send me a PM.
Death wobble is cause by alignment. with the long arms you should be able to dial in your alignment and not have it. Most people get it when they don't bother to do an alignment after a lift.
An adjustable track bar would be the way to go so you can dial that in also and keep your front axle centered.
www.rocktaxi.com I know he has done the coil/leafs on a CJ he has some tech articles but if not what you are looking for shoot him an email he is a really nice guy to talk to.